Conceiving After Miscarriage

Quick take: Most experts recommend waiting at least 4–6 weeks after a miscarriage before trying again, but the exact timing depends on the trimester, your health, and emotional readiness. If you’ve healed physically, feel emotionally supported, and have clearance from your provider, you can begin trying when you feel ready. Research shows that waiting too long (beyond 6–12 months) may slightly reduce fertility, while rushing before full recovery can increase risks.

It’s 2 a.m., you’ve just finished a quiet night feed, and a lingering question keeps tugging at your mind: “When can I try for another baby after my miscarriage?” You’re not alone. Many parents-to-be wrestle with the same worry, wondering whether their body is ready, how long healing takes, and what steps can improve the chances of a healthy next pregnancy. The answer isn’t one-size-fits-all—it depends on your physical recovery, emotional state, and even your age or health history.

Below, we walk you through the latest medical guidance, emotional considerations, and practical tips so you can make an informed decision about when to try again. We’ll break down waiting periods by trimester, explore how age and health affect timing, discuss the role of fertility testing, and share lifestyle ideas that support both body and mind. We’ll also cover what to expect during your first menstrual cycle post-miscarriage, how to track ovulation after loss, and when to consider fertility support if conception doesn’t happen quickly.

How long should I wait to try for pregnancy after a miscarriage?

Guidelines from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) and the UK's National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) suggest a minimum waiting period of 4 to 6 weeks after a miscarriage before attempting conception again. This interval allows the uterus to involute (return to its pre-pregnancy size) and for hormonal levels to stabilize. However, recent studies suggest that waiting too long—beyond 6–12 months—may slightly reduce fertility, particularly for women over 35. A large 2023 meta-analysis published in The BMJ found that couples who conceived within 6 months of a miscarriage had a 10–15% higher chance of a live birth compared to those who waited longer.

In practice, many clinicians personalize the timeline. If the miscarriage was early (before 12 weeks) and there were no complications, a 4-week wait may be sufficient. For later losses or if you experienced heavy bleeding, infection, or retained tissue, a longer interval—often 8–12 weeks—is advised to ensure complete physical recovery. Your provider may also recommend waiting until you’ve had at least one normal menstrual cycle, as this helps confirm that the uterine lining has fully regenerated and provides a clear baseline for dating a future pregnancy.

Beyond the physical healing, emotional readiness is equally important. Studies published by the CDC show that couples who felt emotionally prepared before trying again reported higher satisfaction and lower anxiety during the subsequent pregnancy. One reader shared, “I thought I was ready after 6 weeks, but my first period post-miscarriage hit me harder than I expected. I’m glad I waited another cycle—it gave me time to process.”

Average time to get pregnant after miscarriage varies widely. A large cohort study in the United Kingdom found that the median time to conception after a first-trimester loss was 3 months, while for second-trimester losses it extended to 5 months. Your personal timeline may be shorter or longer, depending on individual factors like age, underlying health conditions, and how regularly you’re having sex during your fertile window.

When is it safe to conceive after a first-trimester miscarriage?

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For example, if you conceive immediately after a miscarriage, your due date may be calculated based on the previous pregnancy’s dates, which can lead to unnecessary anxiety about fetal growth. Waiting for a full cycle also gives you time to replenish nutrients like iron and folate, which are often depleted after a loss. A 2022 study in Obstetrics & Gynecology found that women who waited for one menstrual cycle had a 20% lower risk of another early miscarriage compared to those who conceived immediately.

Safety checklist for first-trimester loss:

• Bleeding has stopped and is light or none.
• No fever, foul-smelling discharge, or persistent abdominal pain.
• Ultrasound (if done) shows no retained tissue.
• Blood tests show normal hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin) levels.
• You’ve had at least one normal menstrual period (if possible).

If these criteria are met, most clinicians feel comfortable clearing you for trying again. However, if you have underlying conditions such as thyroid disorders or uncontrolled diabetes, your provider may suggest a longer interval to optimize health before conception. For instance, women with hypothyroidism may need their medication adjusted to ensure TSH levels are below 2.5 mIU/L, as higher levels are linked to a higher risk of miscarriage.

Recommended waiting period after a second-trimester miscarriage

Second-trimester losses (13–27 weeks) often involve more significant uterine changes and sometimes require medical or surgical intervention. The uterus may need additional time to heal, and there is a higher risk of infection or retained placenta. Most guidelines advise a waiting period of 8 to 12 weeks after a second-trimester miscarriage. This window allows for:

• Complete uterine involution and tissue repair.
• Resolution of any infection or inflammation.
• Re-establishment of a regular menstrual cycle.
• Emotional processing and grief support.

In some cases, especially when a surgical dilation and curettage (D&C) was performed, clinicians may wait up to 16 weeks. A follow-up ultrasound is usually recommended before trying again to confirm that the uterine cavity is clear. One mom described her experience: “After my 16-week loss, my doctor suggested waiting 3 months. I was impatient, but those extra weeks gave me time to heal emotionally and physically. When I finally got my period, I felt like my body was truly ready.”

Success rates after a second-trimester loss show that 70–80% of women who wait at least 12 weeks achieve a live birth in their next pregnancy, according to a study from the Mayo Clinic. This underscores the importance of giving your body adequate time to recover. Additionally, women who experience second-trimester losses may be offered additional testing, such as a hysteroscopy to check for uterine abnormalities or a thrombophilia workup if there’s a history of clotting disorders.

Does age affect how soon I can get pregnant after miscarriage?

Maternal age is a key factor in both fertility and miscarriage risk. Women under 35 years typically have a higher ovarian reserve and a shorter time to conception after a loss. As age rises, egg quality declines, and the window for successful conception may narrow. For example, a 30-year-old woman has about a 20% chance of conceiving in any given cycle, while a 40-year-old’s chance drops to about 5%.

For women 35 and older, many clinicians suggest a slightly longer waiting period—often 6 to 8 weeks—to allow for comprehensive evaluation of hormonal levels and uterine health. This is especially true if you have a history of recurrent miscarriage or known fertility issues. A 2023 study from the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) found that women over 38 who waited 6–8 weeks after a miscarriage had a 15% higher live birth rate in their next pregnancy compared to those who waited less than 4 weeks.

Research from ASRM indicates that the average time to conceive after a miscarriage increases from 2.5 months for women under 30 to about 4 months for those over 38. While age doesn’t dictate a strict “wait X weeks” rule, it does influence the likelihood of a swift, uncomplicated next pregnancy. Older women may also benefit from preconception counseling to discuss age-related risks, such as chromosomal abnormalities, and to explore options like prenatal genetic testing or assisted reproductive technologies (ART) if natural conception doesn’t occur within 6 months.

Key considerations for older parents:

• Baseline fertility testing (AMH, FSH) may be recommended to assess ovarian reserve.
• Pre-conception counseling to address age-related risks, such as chromosomal abnormalities or gestational diabetes.
• Potential discussion of assisted reproductive technologies (e.g., IVF) if natural conception doesn’t occur within 6 months.
• Consideration of prenatal genetic testing (e.g., NIPT) in the next pregnancy to screen for chromosomal conditions.

Impact of emotional healing on timing conception after miscarriage

Emotional recovery is as vital as physical healing. Grief, anxiety, and depression are common after a loss, and rushing into another pregnancy before you feel ready can amplify stress and affect pregnancy outcomes. A 2022 study in JAMA Psychiatry found that women who experienced high levels of stress or depression after a miscarriage were 30% more likely to have another loss in their next pregnancy. This doesn’t mean stress causes miscarriage, but it can disrupt hormonal balance and ovulation, making conception more difficult.

Psychologists and perinatal mental-health experts recommend that couples discuss their feelings openly and consider counseling if needed. A study in the Journal of Reproductive Medicine found that women who received a brief grief counseling session after a miscarriage were 25% more likely to conceive within six months compared with those who did not seek support. Many women find that joining a support group, either in-person or online, helps them feel less alone. One reader shared, “I didn’t realize how much I needed to talk about my loss until I joined a group. Hearing others’ stories made me feel less broken.”

Practical steps to support emotional healing:

1. Set aside time for grief: Journaling, talking with a trusted friend, or joining a support group (e.g., through M.E.N.D. or SHARE Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support) can help process emotions.
2. Create a “pregnancy-ready” ritual: Lighting a candle, planting a tree, or writing a letter to your lost baby can help honor the loss and signal readiness for a new start.
3. Include your partner in the conversation: Shared coping builds resilience. Many couples find that attending counseling together strengthens their relationship during this vulnerable time.
4. Practice self-compassion: Remind yourself that grief isn’t linear. Some days will feel harder than others, and that’s okay.

When you feel a sense of calm and optimism, rather than lingering dread, you’ll be better positioned to enjoy the next pregnancy. However, if you’re struggling with persistent sadness, loss of interest in daily activities, or thoughts of self-harm, reach out to a mental health professional. Perinatal mood disorders are common and treatable.

Medical guidelines for conceiving after a miscarriage with complications

Complications such as infection, retained placental tissue, or chronic medical conditions (e.g., uncontrolled hypertension) require special attention before trying again. Your provider will tailor the waiting period based on the specific issue and how it was treated.

Infection: If you experienced a fever or foul-smelling discharge, your provider will likely order a repeat ultrasound and possibly a blood culture. Antibiotics may be prescribed to clear the infection. Only after confirming clearance of infection should you attempt conception. In some cases, your provider may recommend waiting an additional 2–4 weeks after completing antibiotics to ensure the infection is fully resolved.

Retained tissue: A D&C or medical management with misoprostol may be used to remove retained tissue. Post-procedure, your provider will perform an ultrasound to confirm the uterus is empty. Some clinicians advise waiting for an additional menstrual cycle before trying again to ensure the uterine lining has fully healed. A 2021 study in Fertility and Sterility found that women who waited for one cycle after a D&C had a lower risk of uterine scarring (Asherman’s syndrome) in their next pregnancy.

Chronic conditions: Women with conditions like antiphospholipid syndrome, uncontrolled diabetes, or severe thyroid disease are often asked to stabilize these issues before conception. This may involve medication adjustments, dietary changes, and close monitoring by a specialist. For example, women with diabetes may need to achieve an HbA1c level below 6.5% to reduce the risk of miscarriage and birth defects. Similarly, women with antiphospholipid syndrome may be prescribed low-dose aspirin or heparin to improve blood flow to the placenta.

Overall, the medical guideline is: achieve full physical recovery, obtain clearance from your obstetrician or midwife, and address any underlying health concerns before resuming attempts to conceive. If you’re unsure whether your condition has stabilized, ask your provider for a preconception checkup to review your health status and discuss any necessary adjustments.

Can I get pregnant immediately after a chemical pregnancy miscarriage?

A chemical pregnancy is a very early loss, typically before a fetal heartbeat can be detected (often before 5 weeks). Because the uterine lining has barely changed, ovulation can resume as soon as two weeks after the loss. Most experts agree that you can try again right away if you feel ready. However, a short waiting period of 1–2 weeks can be helpful to allow you to regain emotional balance and to confirm that hCG levels have returned to baseline.

Testing after a chemical pregnancy: A simple blood test for hCG 10–14 days after the loss can confirm that the hormone has cleared. Once it’s back to non-pregnant levels (typically below 5 mIU/mL), there’s no medical barrier to immediate conception. Some women find that tracking their hCG levels provides closure, while others prefer to move forward without testing. There’s no right or wrong approach—do what feels best for you.

Because the loss is so early, the risk of complications is low, and many couples achieve a successful pregnancy within the next 3–4 months. In fact, a 2020 study in Human Reproduction found that women who conceived within 3 months of a chemical pregnancy had a 50% higher chance of a live birth compared to those who waited longer. However, if you’ve experienced multiple chemical pregnancies, your provider may recommend additional testing, such as a thyroid panel or antiphospholipid antibody screen, to rule out underlying causes.

What to expect during your first period after miscarriage

Your first menstrual period after a miscarriage can feel like a milestone—it’s a sign that your body is returning to its pre-pregnancy state. However, it can also bring unexpected emotions, especially if the period is heavier, longer, or more painful than usual. Understanding what’s normal (and what’s not) can help you navigate this phase with confidence.

For most women, the first period arrives 4–6 weeks after a miscarriage, though it may take up to 8 weeks if the loss occurred later in the first trimester or in the second trimester. The flow may be heavier than usual, with more clots, due to the shedding of the uterine lining that built up during pregnancy. Some women also experience stronger cramping as the uterus contracts to expel the tissue. One mom described her experience: “My first period was like a second miscarriage—emotionally, it felt like my body was letting go all over again. But knowing it was normal helped me get through it.”

What’s normal:

• Bleeding lasting 3–7 days, with flow tapering off.
• Mild to moderate cramping, similar to or slightly stronger than your usual period.
• Small clots (up to the size of a quarter).
• Mood swings or heightened emotions due to hormonal fluctuations.

What’s not normal (call your provider if you experience):

• Bleeding that soaks a pad every hour for more than 2 hours.
• Clots larger than a golf ball.
• Severe pain that doesn’t improve with ibuprofen or rest.
• Fever or foul-smelling discharge (signs of infection).
• No period by 8 weeks after the miscarriage (possible hormonal imbalance or retained tissue).

If your period is significantly different from your usual pattern, your provider may recommend an ultrasound to check for retained tissue or uterine abnormalities. In some cases, hormonal birth control may be prescribed for 1–2 cycles to regulate your period and give your body a chance to reset before trying again.

How to track ovulation after miscarriage

Tracking ovulation after a miscarriage can help you identify your fertile window and improve your chances of conceiving quickly. However, your first few cycles may be irregular as your hormones rebalance, so it’s important to use multiple methods to confirm ovulation.

Here are the most reliable ways to track ovulation post-miscarriage:

1. Basal body temperature (BBT) charting: Your BBT rises slightly (about 0.5°F) after ovulation due to the hormone progesterone. Tracking your temperature every morning before getting out of bed can help you pinpoint when ovulation occurs. After a miscarriage, your BBT may be slightly elevated for a few days due to lingering hCG, but it should return to baseline before ovulation. Apps like Fertility Friend or Glow can help you chart your temperatures and identify patterns.
2. Cervical mucus monitoring: As you approach ovulation, your cervical mucus becomes clear, stretchy, and slippery—similar to raw egg whites. This type of mucus helps sperm travel to the egg. After a miscarriage, your mucus may be scant or sticky for the first cycle, but it should return to its usual pattern by the second cycle.
3. Ovulation predictor kits (OPKs): These kits detect the surge in luteinizing hormone (LH) that occurs 12–36 hours before ovulation. After a miscarriage, wait until your hCG levels have returned to baseline (below 5 mIU/mL) before using OPKs, as hCG can cause false positives. Some women find that their LH surge is weaker or shorter after a loss, so combining OPKs with BBT charting can provide more accurate results.
4. Saliva ferning tests: These tests detect changes in your saliva that occur around ovulation. While less reliable than OPKs or BBT charting, they can be a useful supplementary tool. After a miscarriage, your saliva may show ferning patterns earlier or later than usual due to hormonal fluctuations, so don’t rely on this method alone.

If your cycles remain irregular after 2–3 months, your provider may recommend blood tests to check your progesterone levels or an ultrasound to assess follicular development. In some cases, medications like clomiphene citrate (Clomid) may be prescribed to stimulate ovulation.

What tests are needed before trying again after miscarriage?

Even after an uncomplicated loss, a brief evaluation can uncover hidden factors that affect future fertility. The tests your provider recommends will depend on your medical history, the trimester of the loss, and whether you’ve had recurrent miscarriages (defined as 2 or more consecutive losses). Here’s a breakdown of common tests and when they’re typically recommended:

Most providers will order only the tests that are clinically indicated based on your history. For a single, uncomplicated miscarriage, a repeat hCG and a brief ultrasound are often sufficient. However, if you’ve had two or more losses, your provider may recommend a more comprehensive workup, often referred to as a “recurrent pregnancy loss panel.” This may include tests for:

• Lupus anticoagulant and anticardiolipin antibodies (for antiphospholipid syndrome).
• Factor V Leiden and prothrombin gene mutations (for inherited thrombophilias).
• Prolactin levels (elevated prolactin can disrupt ovulation).
• Glucose tolerance test (to screen for undiagnosed diabetes).

Lifestyle and preparation: While awaiting test results, focus on a balanced diet rich in folate (400–800 mcg daily), iron, and omega-3 fatty acids. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week, and prioritize sleep and stress management. These steps improve overall fertility and set the stage for a healthy next pregnancy. If you’re unsure where to start, consider meeting with a registered dietitian or fertility coach who specializes in preconception care.

When to consider fertility support after miscarriage

If you’ve been trying to conceive for 3–6 months after a miscarriage without success, it may be time to explore fertility support. The timeline depends on your age, medical history, and how long you’ve been trying. For women under 35, most providers recommend seeking help after 12 months of unprotected intercourse. For women 35 and older, the window shortens to 6 months due to age-related declines in fertility.

However, if you’ve had a miscarriage, your provider may suggest earlier evaluation, especially if you have risk factors such as:

• Irregular menstrual cycles.
• A history of pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) or endometriosis.
• Known uterine abnormalities (e.g., fibroids, polyps).
• Male factor infertility (e.g., low sperm count, poor motility).
• Recurrent miscarriages (2 or more).

Fertility support can take many forms, from lifestyle adjustments to medical interventions. Here’s a step-by-step guide to what to expect:

1. Preconception counseling: Your provider will review your medical history, perform a physical exam, and order baseline tests (e.g., blood work, ultrasound). They may also recommend genetic counseling if you or your partner have a family history of inherited conditions.
2. Ovulation induction: If you’re not ovulating regularly, medications like clomiphene citrate (Clomid) or letrozole (Femara) can stimulate egg development. These medications are typically taken for 5 days early in your cycle, and your provider will monitor your response with ultrasounds or blood tests.
3. Intrauterine insemination (IUI): This procedure involves placing washed sperm directly into the uterus around the time of ovulation. IUI is often recommended for couples with unexplained infertility, mild male factor issues, or cervical mucus problems. Success rates vary but average around 10–20% per cycle, depending on age and other factors.
4. In vitro fertilization (IVF): IVF involves retrieving eggs from the ovaries, fertilizing them with sperm in a lab, and transferring the resulting embryo(s) into the uterus. IVF is typically recommended for couples with more complex fertility issues, such as blocked fallopian tubes, severe male factor infertility, or recurrent miscarriage. Success rates depend on age, with live birth rates ranging from 40–50% for women under 35 to 10–20% for women over 40.
5. Preimplantation genetic testing (PGT): If you’ve had recurrent miscarriages or are at risk for chromosomal abnormalities, PGT can screen embryos for genetic issues before transfer. This can reduce the risk of another loss and improve the chances of a healthy pregnancy.

Many couples find that fertility support not only improves their chances of conception but also provides a sense of control and hope during a challenging time. One reader shared, “After two miscarriages, I was hesitant to try IVF. But the process gave me answers—I learned I had a balanced translocation, which explained my losses. Knowing that helped me feel more confident about my next pregnancy.”

If you’re considering fertility support, start by talking to your OB-GYN or a reproductive endocrinologist. They can help you weigh the pros and cons of each option and create a personalized plan based on your goals and medical history.

How to improve chances of conceiving after miscarriage

Beyond waiting the appropriate amount of time, several evidence-based strategies can boost your fertility and support a healthy pregnancy. These lifestyle tweaks align with recommendations from the CDC, NICE, and ACOG, and many couples report feeling more in control of their fertility journey when they implement them.

• Optimize nutrition: Aim for at least 400–800 mcg of folic acid daily (or 600 mcg if you’re actively trying to conceive). Folate helps prevent neural tube defects and supports early fetal development. Include leafy greens (spinach, kale), fortified cereals, beans, and citrus fruits in your diet. Iron-rich foods like lean red meat, lentils, and pumpkin seeds can help replenish iron stores lost during miscarriage. Omega-3 fatty acids (found in salmon, walnuts, and flaxseeds) support hormonal balance and reduce inflammation. If you’re unsure about your nutrient levels, ask your provider about a prenatal vitamin with iron and DHA.
• Maintain a healthy weight: Both underweight (BMI < 18.5) and overweight (BMI > 30) can affect ovulation and hormone balance. A modest weight loss or gain, as advised by a dietitian, can improve outcomes. For example, losing 5–10% of body weight can restore ovulation in women with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). Similarly, gaining weight if you’re underweight can help regulate menstrual cycles. Aim for gradual, sustainable changes rather than extreme diets.
• Regular moderate exercise: Activities like brisk walking, prenatal yoga, or swimming support blood flow to the reproductive organs without over-exertion. Exercise can also reduce stress and improve sleep, both of which are important for fertility. However, avoid intense workouts (e.g., marathon training, HIIT) if you’re underweight or have a history of irregular cycles, as they can disrupt ovulation. Listen to your body—if you feel fatigued, opt for gentler activities like stretching or restorative yoga.
• Limit caffeine and alcohol: Keep caffeine under 200 mg per day (about one 12-oz coffee) and avoid alcohol when trying to conceive. A 2022 study in Fertility and Sterility found that women who consumed more than 200 mg of caffeine daily had a 20% lower chance of conceiving per cycle. Alcohol can disrupt hormone balance and may increase the risk of miscarriage, so it’s best to avoid it altogether while trying to conceive.
• Sleep and stress management: Aim for 7–9 hours of quality sleep per night. Poor sleep can disrupt hormones like cortisol and melatonin, which play a role in ovulation and implantation. Stress management techniques like mindfulness, meditation, or deep breathing can lower cortisol levels and improve fertility. Apps like Headspace or Calm offer guided meditations tailored to fertility and pregnancy.
• Timed intercourse: Having sex every 1–2 days during your fertile window (the 5 days leading up to ovulation and the day of ovulation) maximizes your chances of conception. Use ovulation tracking methods (e.g., OPKs, BBT charting) to identify your most fertile days. If you’re unsure when you ovulate, aim for sex every 2–3 days throughout your cycle to ensure sperm are present when the egg is released.

In addition to these lifestyle changes, consider discussing the following with your provider:

• Coenzyme Q10 (CoQ10): This antioxidant may improve egg quality, especially for women over 35. A 2021 study in Reproductive Biology and Endocrinology found that women who took 600 mg of CoQ10 daily for 2 months had improved ovarian response to fertility treatments.
• Acupuncture: Some studies suggest that acupuncture may improve blood flow to the uterus and reduce stress, though more research is needed. If you’re interested in trying acupuncture, look for a practitioner who specializes in fertility.
• Prenatal vitamins: Start taking a prenatal vitamin with folic acid, iron, and DHA at least 1–3 months before trying to conceive. This ensures your body has the nutrients it needs for early fetal development.

When to see a doctor after miscarriage before trying again

Even after an uncomplicated loss, a follow-up appointment is advisable to ensure you’re physically and emotionally ready to try again. Schedule a visit if any of the following occur:

• Bleeding continues beyond two weeks or becomes heavy (soaking a pad every hour).
• You develop a fever (> 38°C/100.4°F) or foul-smelling discharge (signs of infection).
• Pain persists or worsens after the initial cramping subsides.
• You have not resumed a regular menstrual cycle within 6–8 weeks.
• You have concerns about emotional well-being or feel unable to try again.
• You experience symptoms of depression or anxiety, such as persistent sadness, loss of interest in activities, or thoughts of self-harm.

During this visit, your provider will likely perform a brief ultrasound to check for retained tissue or uterine abnormalities, review your hCG levels, and discuss any needed tests or lifestyle adjustments before you begin trying again. They may also recommend a pelvic exam to assess cervical health and rule out conditions like cervical insufficiency, which can increase the risk of preterm birth.

If you’re unsure whether you’re ready to try again, ask your provider for guidance. They can help you weigh the pros and cons of waiting versus moving forward and connect you with resources like support groups or counseling. One reader shared, “I was terrified to try again after my loss, but my doctor helped me create a plan. Knowing I had her support made all the difference.”

From our medical team: “Physical recovery after a miscarriage is usually swift, but emotional healing can take longer. We encourage you to listen to your body, ask for a clear medical clearance, and give yourself permission to grieve. When you’re ready, we’ll help you create a personalized plan to support a healthy next pregnancy. Remember, there’s no ‘right’ timeline—only what feels right for you and your partner.”

Myth vs. fact

Myth: You must wait at least one year after a miscarriage before trying again.

Fact: Most guidelines recommend a minimum of 4–6 weeks, though many couples conceive successfully much sooner if they’re medically cleared and feel emotionally ready. Waiting longer than 6–12 months may slightly reduce fertility, especially for women over 35.

Myth: A chemical pregnancy means you’re infertile.